Will you feel sorry for this guy?

If hez getting married(arranged marriage) to someone who loves someone else but is just too scared to tell this to her parents and is just settling on her parents choice of husband by compromising.She cant marry her love due to traditional and cultural reasons,atleast her family wont allow anyways. The guy is not a perfect match for the girl in terms of looks but is not aware of the fact that she isnt all that happy marrying him even though he asked her. So will you feel sorry for the guy or the fact that shez so beautiful and hez not enough?And if you get to know reality being the guy,what would you do? Will you feel sorry for this guy?
No, I wouldn't, I don't really feel bad for people, ever.Will you feel sorry for this guy?
I wouldn't feel bad for him; hell, I'd feel good for him, in a sad way. Ignorance is bliss, and as long as he stayed ignorant, I'd have no reason to feel bad for him.The woman, on the other hand, I'd feel terrible for.
[QUOTE=''Theokhoth'']I wouldn't feel bad for him; hell, I'd feel good for him, in a sad way. Ignorance is bliss, and as long as he stayed ignorant, I'd have no reason to feel bad for him.The woman, on the other hand, I'd feel terrible for. [/QUOTE]Pretty much this. ^^
[QUOTE=''Bloodaxe726'']No, I wouldn't, I don't really feel bad for people, ever.[/QUOTE] i like the way you think
I didn't quite get your post, sorry.
[QUOTE=''aliblabla2007'']I didn't quite get your post, sorry.[/QUOTE]A woman and a man are getting married in an arranged marriage. Though the woman is going for it, she doesn't love the man she's marrying. The man does not know this; rather, he believes she loves him as much as he loves her.Would you feel sorry for the man?
[QUOTE=''Theokhoth''][QUOTE=''aliblabla2007'']I didn't quite get your post, sorry.[/QUOTE]A woman and a man are getting married in an arranged marriage. Though the woman is going for it, she doesn't love the man she's marrying. The man does not know this; rather, he believes she loves him as much as he loves her.Would you feel sorry for the man? [/QUOTE]I would feel sorry for him for what he's getting into, but not for what he thinks he's getting into.
I have to say that I've never much given a crap about anyone else's relationships unless they directly affect me in some way...which is practically never.  I guess I'm just self-centered that way.  I don't think I'd really care one way or the other.I think the concept of arranged marriages in general is rather antiquated, to say the least, but I don't have the frame of refernce of living in a culture where it's normal so I really can't relate to it.